Break The Relationship Gender Rules
Where man and woman are concerned, it is best to be exactly who you are and either can decide whether or not they can see you in their future. There’s too many people pretending and following the boy + girl rules. Break them!
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She is allowed to wink at him first
She is allowed to dial him up
She is allowed to “initiate the first move”
She is allowed to say I Love You first
We are allowed to be friends without benefits.
We are allowed to take friendship to the next level.
We are allowed when it does not work out, to be even better friends than we were before.
Who made the rule of making him wait at least 90 days? Maybe he should wait until marriage. How about that! Ha!
She is allowed to be vulnerable, so is he!
He is allowed to cry
A little jealousy is healthy
She is allowed to pay for his dinner
My personal favorite: The Ex doesn’t have to be the enemy. There was something that made you smitten for him or her before. Maturity simply realizes that it just didn’t work for the two of you and life goes on.
She is allowed to take out the trash
He is allowed to do dishes, cook and clean
He is allowed to show his love in public.
She is allowed to protect him and the relationship as well as he is to do for her. It does not mean that she is trading in her panties for his boxers.
We are free to love and in love the boundaries can be what we make them. All of these rules that people made are not set in stone. We can do as little or as much as we want or are comfortable and open to doing. All of the restrictions take away from the fun!
